
Dentists, Take Heart: You're Doing Better Than You Think
Let’s be real.
Dentistry is hard.
The pressure. The posture. The precision.
The overhead. The staffing headaches. The insurance companies with their endless red tape.
Some days you may feel more like a firefighter, therapist, manager, and bill collector than a healthcare provider.
And on those days, you may wonder:
“Is this really worth it?”
If you’ve ever felt that way, you’re not alone.
But here’s the truth:
Dentistry is still one of the most impactful, rewarding, and bright careers out there. You may just need a little reminder of why you started—and how others, just like you, found a way forward.
Story #1: Dr. Jenna, Burned Out and Bitter—Until She Found Balance
Jenna had been practicing for eight years when it hit her: she didn’t enjoy dentistry anymore. The patient complaints, the insurance write-offs, and the 60-hour workweeks were draining the life out of her.
“I used to dread Monday mornings,” she said. “I was snapping at my team. I didn’t even recognize myself.”
What changed?
She got help. She hired a practice coach. She reduced her schedule to four days. She dropped two of her lowest-paying PPOs. She gave herself permission to say no to burnout and yes to her mental health.
Today, Dr. Jenna says:
“I love dentistry again. I didn’t leave the profession—I reimagined it.”
Story #2: Dr. Luis, The Insurance Fighter Who Took His Power Back
Dr. Luis used to joke that he worked for Delta Dental, not himself. Between write-offs and endless claims, he was ready to walk away.
Instead, he took action.
He partnered with a PPO negotiation company, dropped three underperforming plans, and launched an in-house membership plan for his uninsured patients. He also trained his team to confidently explain out-of-network benefits and value-based care.
The result?
Fewer patients, higher revenue, and far less stress.
“Every day feels lighter,” Luis said. “Because now I’m practicing on my terms.”
Story #3: Dr. Priya, The Perfectionist Who Made Peace With Being Human
Dr. Priya’s biggest stressor wasn’t insurance or money—it was her own expectations.
“I thought I had to be flawless to be a good dentist,” she admitted. “If I had a tough patient, or a crown didn’t seat right, I’d beat myself up for days.”
But one day, a patient hugged her and said, “You changed my life.” And she realized—she didn’t need to be perfect. She just needed to show up, care deeply, and keep learning.
She started journaling. She joined a local dental study club. And she forgave herself for being human.
“Now I treat myself with the same compassion I give my patients. That’s what changed everything.”
The Truth: It’s Not Just Dentistry. It’s Life.
Dentistry is hard. But so is medicine. So is teaching. So is owning a business, or being a parent, or navigating this world with empathy and resilience.
You’re not weak because it’s hard.
You’re strong because you keep showing up.
Why Dentistry Is Still Worth It
Here’s what you may forget in the chaos of charts and claims:
You help people smile again.
You end pain and restore confidence.
You empower patients to live healthier lives.
You lead a team. You mentor. You teach.
You build something real—a legacy of service and healing.
Yes, it’s stressful. But it’s also profoundly meaningful.
Give Yourself (and Others) Some Grace
We’re all carrying more than we let on.
So today, be gentle with yourself. Celebrate the small wins:
That anxious patient who finally sat in the chair.
That beautiful composite you took a little extra time to polish.
The kind word you said to a team member.
The fact that you made it through the day.
Dentistry doesn’t require perfection—it requires heart. And you have plenty of that.
Final Thought: There Is a Brighter Path Ahead
If you're struggling, you're not broken—you’re just being called to reimagine your career in a way that feeds your spirit, not just your schedule.
Take breaks. Ask for help. Rebuild your systems. Say no to what drains you. Say yes to what lights you up.
And on the tough days, remember:
You’re not just a dentist. You’re a healer. A leader. A light in someone’s darkness.
The world needs you.
Your patients need you.
And you deserve to thrive in this incredible, challenging, beautiful profession.
So take a deep breath. You’ve got this.
Benjamin Tuinei
Founder - Veritas Dental Resources, LLC
Phone: 888-808-4513
Services:
PPO Fee Negotiators | PPO Fee Negotiating | Insurance Fee Negotiating
Insurance Credentialing | Insurance Verifications
Websites:
www.VeritasDentalResources.com | www.VerusDental.com